Wednesday, March 17, 2010

My Trip

March 27th Brig-Munich
March 28th Munich
March 29th Munich-Prague
March 30th Prague
March 31st Prague-Vienna
April 1st Vienna
April 2nd Vienna-Brussels
April 3rd Brussels-London
April 4th London
April 5th London- Paris
April 6th Paris- Barcelona
April 7th Barcelona
April 8th Barcelona
April 9th Barcelona
April 10th Barcelona- Naples
April 11th Naples
April 12th Naples- Rome
April 13th Roma- Sienna
April 14th Sienna
April 15th Sienna- Pisa-Brig
April 16th Brig
April 17th Brig- Zurich-New York
April 17th to 27th- New York
April 27th New York- Tri Cities

Made My Day

As I was leaving my econ class today that I had with Mr. Cocker he asked to see me before I left. Obviously I assume that this is bad, usually it always is. I had turned in a paper last week, that definitely wasn't my best so I thought he was going to say something about that. Then he started talking about my self evaluation, which is from my organizational behavior class that I have with him. We had a tutorial last week in which a group of five students sits down and discusses different issues presented in the course. I am beginning to REALLY enjoy them. At first they are intimidating, completely different from my past school experiences. No teacher usually cares that much to sit down and discuss and explore issues we learn about. Mostly they just have us regurgitate what they say in class on the test.

Mr. Cocker is different, alot of what we learn is class is relevant to the test (tutorials), but thats not the point. It to explore the different view points of an issue and be able to back up the argument with experiences and what we learn in class. Its basically amazing, he is teaching me HOW to think about stuff not just throwing out terms that I need to memorize. The situation often turns debate like when the students or Cocker don't agree with each other during the tutorial.

Back to the self evaluation. Anyway he pulled me aside to thank me for coming back to school after what happened with my mom. Then he asked how I was doing. This wasn't a pity ask at all. This was a I truly want to know how you are dealing with this ask. On my self evaluation I talked about how I could connect my future plans into what we talked about in the tutorial rather than just past experiences. He said that I have alot of potential. This was not a, "why are you failing...you should know you have alot of potential," situation. It was also not a you need to have more confidence in what you have to say because what you have to say has substance either. He was being serious. He said I had really good reasoning that I presented during the tutorial.

Mr. Cocker, while often confusing from a student standpoint, is one of the most intelligent people I have ever come across in my life. Quite possibly could be for the rest of my life. Sometimes his classes are a tad boring because of the material, but what he has taught me is how to develop and argue an issue. For some reason I have never learned this. Yeah I have had to write papers. But it makes more sense to test us verbally on the spot because thats how it will be in life and in the workplace. We won't walk back to out desks at our job and whip out a five paragraph essay. We will have a conversation with someone and build off of what each person presents about the issue.

It was extremely flattering for no reason at all to have a teacher tell me I have potential. It means so much more coming from someone else.

Friday, March 12, 2010

some great advice I got....

1. Remember the good times, everything else might as well have never happened.

2. Although the pain and sadness never completely goes away, time will numb it and life will go on.

3. You now have a new perspective on life and living. 99% of your friends don't have this so use it to your advantage when dealing with whatever situations come your way in the future.

4. On the bright side, you will NEVER have to deal with anything worse than this.

5. Sooner or later one of your friends will lose somebody, and you are obligated to share your own insight (as I have) that you learned from the experience. After all, we live and we die, and most people will inevitably have to deal with a similar situation and you will have the experiences already under your belt. You're not alone.

6. Everything in life after this is a cakewalk :)

This was pretty much the best advice anyone gave to me after my mom died. Everyone I turned to had sad eyes when I looked at them. There is a reason no one really knew how sick my mom ever was, I don't really like pity. So why would that change after she passed? Don't give me sad eyes and ask me how I am because you don't want to know...you just feel like you have to ask. You really dont care. Very few people in my life ever get a real answer. Sometimes it because I trust them, but sometimes its out of desperation to just let it little bit out. When it comes to dealing with what is going on in my life I rarely tell people the full story of really whats going on. I break it into bits and pieces and spread it around to my various friends. It would be unfair and selfish of me to expect that anyone wants to know the whole story of what I am going through.

That's why my mom was so amazing. She has been the only person in my life that actually wants to hear every little detail of every day of every hour that happens in my life. She was the best person to talk to. She always had the best advice and the strangest little things she would do for me.

Monday, March 1, 2010

Can You Imagine?!?


Thursday: We left for Egypt in the morning around 9am on the train to Geneva and caught our flight to Cairo. That part wasn't too bad, just long. The bad part was when we got there it took us 3 hours to get from the airport to the hotel. It was pouring down rain and I guess it only rains maybe 15 days a year there (which makes sense it is the desert). Not only was it pouring, but there was hail too. Since it never rains they don't have a drainage system and the water just floods everywhere. The streets are crazy because there are already 4 million cars on the road and traffic all the time! So imagine that plus flooding on the streets and a crazy old bus driver. The ride was long.
That night we got settled in our hotel and wanted to go smoke hookah. We got crappy directions from the hotel and got lost. On the way Lindsay ended up talked to one of the boat guys (Our hotel was by the Nile and they have people that will take you on boat rides) and he said he would take us to the hookah place. Little did we know all we had to do was cross the bridge. They scammed us and took advantage of us, oh the joys of being a tourist. Once we got there we had a bit of problem ordering what we wanted. In the US when you go to a smoke shop a couple people will share one hookah. Here everyone gets there own! It was so funny, you should have seen out faces when they brought out 9 separate hookahs. Then we couldn't get the boat guys to leave because we wanted to just walk back, we ended up having to pay again just to get them to leave. All and all the first night was an experience sitting by the Nile smoking hookah.

Friday: This day was so crazy, we did all the main touristy stuff. First we went to Sakkara which is where the step pyramids are. Our tour guide got a little mad when people bought souvenirs there because he thought we would be smarter than to get ripped off like that. After Sakkara we went to a Carpet school. Which to me wasn't exactly a school, but more of child labor, however for them I feel like it might have been good. Since being there I go back and fourth on how I feel about this. I guess when I think of Egypt I never thought the country was so poor and corrupt. So for these children going to "carpet school" maybe it was better than there alternative.







For lunch we went to this really authentic Egyptian place. We had this handmade pita bread with some kind of tzikish sauce and a couple different toppings and this fired roasted whole chicken that was absolutely amazing! The food was great and the restaurant was outdoors. After lunch was the big adventure we headed to the pyramids and took tons of pictures. The size of them is indescribable and I just stared wondering how they were built. The tombs inside were a little overrated and a tad claustrophobic. It was just an empty room. I guess I thought there would be more to the inside of the pyramid if they put all that effort into building them.



The best part was riding the camels right next to the pyramids. It was a really short ride, but amazingly fun. We rode two people to each camel and when they get up and sit down you feel like you are going to slide right off because they are so unbalanced. They are much taller than I expected as well. My favorite part of the whole day was the Sphinx. The sphinx is a the body of a fierce lion with the head of a wise king and are meant to be guardians. This reminded of my mom. Our first dog, Shannon, would always lay on the floor and my mom would say she looked like a sphinx in the way she was sitting. Now, I find this ironic and it makes me think that my mom is somewhere with Shannon guarding over my dad and I.




The last place we went was a papyrus shop. The story about papyrus paper is pretty cool. Its actually a reed that grows along the banks of the nile and they cut it up and flatten and dry the strips together and it makes and amazing strong and long lasting paper. At the shop they did a demonstration and then a couple people bought different ones with egyptians pictures. That night we went on our dinner cruise.

After a pretty cool dinner cruise with a belly dancer and dancing entertainer we headed back tot he hotel. The same thing that usually happened happened. All the boys wanted to do was to drink and pretty much ditch the girls. Most of the group ended up going to bed, but Tom, Eli, Laura, Lindsay, and I went to find a hookah shop near our hotel. We finally found one that was much better than the night before. When we got there we ordered two hookahs with what we thought was mango and strawberry, but we ended up getting two smoothies and had no idea what flavored sheesha we got! The five of us enjoyed a relaxing night and the night was topped off by only costing us 17 pounds which pretty much equaled 80 cents each. At first we even asked them if they meant 17 dollars.




Saturday: This day was absolutely crazy. We went to three different Mosques and on Church. The mosques were really interesting, Im not sure I really understand the religion yet, but it was interesting to actually see a mosque where people were praying. I never realized that the women and men pray separately. Also the girls had to wear robes when we went into the mosques if our arms were showing. After a somewhat disappointing lunch at the Hard Rock Cafe we went to the market which was incredible. There were so many vendors with amazing stuff, well cheap stuff! But I feel in love with the pretty purses and scarves. I bought 7 scarves, well 4 for me and 3 for presents and it ended up being about $20 for all the scarves. What was insane was the guys trying to sell stuff in the shops. They were pretty intense and would corner us in the store and try and sell their stuff, but you just have to say no and walk through them. Sometimes they think you are really dumb. One guy tried to sell me a scarf for 450 pounds which I ended up buying for 20 pounds. So in reality he tried to sell the scarf to me for $80 which is so ridiculous, makes me wonder how many people fell for that!




When we got back to the hotel we ended up going to get pizza hut, so random and then the girls just hung out in one of the rooms and drank. The boys were off getting drunk and wanted to galavant around Cairo without us. Which was fine because then ended up getting lost/ separated and had to ask the girls for help anyway.